What's your niche? Have you found "a knack for something that somebody was willing to pay for" that you enjoy and still gives you time for your family and friends? Don't worry. You will. Just have faith and look how it may not be like Wobegon, but you will find your idyllic life. He didn't have a path, either, but he focused on what was important and had a plan - and it would be tough to find anyone over 30 that doesn't know his name. This article from 1997 is interesting - especially since he just announced retirement.
http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/1997/10/its-just-work/305002/?single_page=true
