Thursday, March 31, 2016

Own Your Story

The last day of the month usually has people clamor, “I can’t believe how fast the month passed!”  This month, homes around our country clean up and prepare for the coming warmer season and we find things that remind us of our past.  Some get safely stored while other reminders are thrown away.  But it never fails that we are always a bit “surprised” at how time flies.  While time is constant (flashback to physics classes), our perception of time changes as we age.
When we were younger, car rides to our grandparents’ home seemed to take forever though as we got older, we’d gladly take all the time we needed to get to spend time with loved ones.
When we were younger, the time we had to take tests in school seemed way too short; when we’re older, we realize tests are more than just a classroom exercise and some actually take years to successfully answer one question.
When we were younger, we could change who we were by dressing up in a different outfit (even if there was that one favorite costume) and today… we all need to realize if there is something uncomfortable about ourselves or if we have wishes that are unfulfilled, we can change it!
You need to own your story and tell the world who you are.  It’s more than the job you hold, the place you live, or with whom you spend your time.  There are pieces and parts of your life that influence who you are and how your story is written.  Just because you’ve done a job for five years - or 15 years - doesn’t mean that you need to stick with that role.
Achieved status means things we’ve accomplished in our lives.  It means we have worked to create another building block of our life. The choices we make say a lot about who we are.
You can achieve anything you want.
Then, make sure you tell your story that consistent with you who have become.  What would the title of your story be?  Strategy isn’t just for the workplace - it’s about being your authentic self and letting others know who you are.

Tuesday, March 22, 2016

Negotiate a better salary - three tips and tricks

Nobody cares about you, honey - it’s all about the business.
You have to standup for yourself.  When passing into the “you’re hired” phase, many so-called experts tell you to highlight your good qualities when trying to get a better deal.  Wrong.  
With more than seven billion people in the world, the odds of someone else having those experiences and skills - even in a small town or a particular industry - I’d make a call to Vegas and wager money against you.
However, notice where I focused that last sentence - on the numbers.  It’s about numbers that work in your favor.  You need to show the new business that you know how to count. So what numbers should be important to you and why? 
Here are three tips on how to negotiate a better package from a new employer.
Problem one is all about that base.  Thanks, Megan Trainor.  The base is the focus, not the treble or other benefits.  That comes later...
Problem One: You are offered a lower base salary than you want.
Answer One: Look at the average base salary for that position in the city or region.  Then, also research the average years of people in same position.
Option One Part A: The base salary offered is lower.
Solution One Part A: You counter with knowledge of the industry by providing the average salary in a given area and incorporate the years on the job of the person in the role (if it is the same or less than yours).  Hard for a company to justify how they value you less than someone that’s average - and you don’t even have to explain how you’re better than just “average.” Use salary.comglassdoor.compayscale.com… you get the drift.  Compare a few, too, as Salary uses numbers from industry but Glassdoor uses employee self-reporting.
Option One Part B: The base salary offered is higher.
Solution One Part B: Don’t necessarily negotiate the base until after you review what’s next (but know you’ll likely take the offer and just want to see how to sweeten it).
Problem two is they better recognize.  Thanks, Honey Boo-Boo.  They need to recognize your work contributions...
Problem Two: You are offered either a lower merit bonus or no merit - or worse yet, a “team” bonus.
Answer Two: Refer back to Answer One. 
Option Two Part A: They offer a low or no bonus structure. 
Solution Two Part A: A bit longer explanation as bonus payments are more complicated… Review how their base salary offering compares to the average base in your profession for your job for your region for your years of experience.  If no merit is offered (or an older-model cost of living set increase), leverage it with the Solution One and a combination of your own past reviews (if they were good) to show your contributions.  Give them facts about your sales exceeding target, your patient satisfaction survey results, your student evaluations - whatever it takes for third party data to show them what they are getting.  Don’t say how great you are - third party acts are WAY BETTER and more successful. After all, you have nothing to say if the response is “no” if you just told them you are wonderful, but with metrics you can still have a second round of discussion.
Option Two Part B: They offer a  “team effort” bonus structure.
Solution Two Part B: Again longer explanation, but for a different reason than Part A. This is generally a no-win bonus as almost every job today has some system that, regardless of what you call it, is manipulated to cover cost of living increases.  Kind of like threatening with a big stick but forgetting a carrot.  These merit structures can’t be altered and this one stinks as it depends on other people not screwing up your money. However, your past performance ratings can influence a bigger base… meaning that the 3% they may say was awarded last year will be larger on a salary that’s $3,000 higher than the original offer.  Combined with the Solution One Part A, you can get a larger base salary (which means better matching for retirement, too).  Combine this personal initial agreement increase based on your past performance with Solution One Part B, you again get a larger base salary.  Refer back to point one - it’s all about the base and guaranteed money.
Problem three is what about me. Thanks, Kardashians.  The “selfie” here though is your bank account and portfolio...
Problem Three: The benefits structure seems lower - fewer days off than what you have now or less of a retirement match than what you have today.
Answer Three: A variation of Answer One - it’s all about where you start the count.
Option Three Part A: If you are leaving a company that gave you additional days vacation after your years of loyalty, tell the new employer.  State your current paid days off, sick time, or PTO.  Speak their language.
Solution Three Part A: This is a give-away for them.  The starting "days off" package is nearly always negotiable.  If you have experience in the industry - especially at a direct competitor - this is a good area to let them know they are not as generous as where you currently work.  You don’t need them (though you may want them) - they need you and is the last thing you review.  With the above steps, they should already be paying you appropriately at this point anyway, so putting extra “V”s in the system is easy. By gaining your experience and not a starter position that would only earn the intro rate, you can leverage what you know and how long you did it somewhere else as a reward, too.  But don’t let this be the deal breaker if you’ve already handled One and Two.
Option Three Part B: The new company doesn’t match as high of a percentage for retirement or takes longer to vest their contributions to your program.
Solution Three Part B: As this set-up is extremely unlikely to change, reframe it; let them know how the math works out against you, making their offer seem cheap (don’t say that literally).  Pretend you couldn’t get a better base for the sake of math here. Both jobs are annual $100,000, but the new job offered only 3%of salary match instead of 6% match of you current employer. The new job is actually paying you $3,000 less a year - over ten years, that’s $30,000 they don’t give you (forget the investment interest).  And I didn’t even do the “harder” math of raises, promotions, or that merit bonus - so it becomes more than $30,000! Effectively, this puts your negotiation back at Option One Part A - so you need to get this loss back into your base and you can tell them this component of your request to raise the base is so you can replace the decrease to your retirement contribution at the new company. 

There’s a lot of talk about underemployment in the supposed economic recovery from the 2008 recession in addition to gender pay-gaps in certain fields and other job trending information.  Any reason for the reduction in overall wages, sluggish increase in pay, or effective results lowering by age (younger or older) or gender - people aren’t sure how to get what they think they deserve for their skills.  They don’t want to lose a chance… but will regret taking a position if they didn’t try to get what they think they deserve. If you are professional during the negotiation, it only bodes well as they know you know your business and are willing to invest in your best project - yourself.
Going back to the beginning of this article - if you don’t look out for yourself, no one else will.  Have a cheerleader to remind you how great you are, but talk numbers when you are looking to take something from them to the bank.

Friday, March 18, 2016

The Most Important List

When you’re young, you think about your future, actually taking steps to practice being in that role: you dress up and play as a doctor, as a princess, as a knight, as a soldier.  Playtime (and practice) helps build skills - remember that book “All I really I need to know I learned in Kindergarten?”
You probably remember that book's “top ten” list (people love lists):
1. Share everything.
2. Play fair.
3. Don't hit people.
4. Put thngs back where you found them.
5. Clean up your own mess.
6. Don't take things that aren't yours.
7. Say you're sorry when you hurt somebody.
8. Wash your hands before you eat.
9. Flush.
10. Warm cookies and cold milk are good for you.

We subconsciously use lists all the time. For instance, when you buy things for yourself, family or friends, is “speed” at the top of that list, such as how fast you can get the task completed? Speed isn’t important unless you are buying a Porsche or you forgot to make a list and are running late for the birthday party.  I bet your list centers on quality when thinking of others.
If the above is your “kindergarten" list, what’s your "grown up" list? Do you even have a list? You should.  How will you know if you are exceeding your goals if there’s no ‘list'? 
Work forces you to accomplish things on a list.  You make a grocery list (it may or may not get used). There’s a house chores list.  These are little things and you take time to make a stupid list - what about the big things?
The most important list is the one that inspires you every day - to do the right thing, to be a good person, to sleep well at night.  The best lists are the ones that uplift and remind you of who you are, who was that little person that’s now a big person and can change the world.
To help you get started, you can pick ten things that are meaningful to you and how you want to live your life - then find inspiration.  
Here’s my list, and while I need to focus on them all everyday, it’s important to start… start with a list, and start remembering what is important.
1. IntentIt doesn’t matter what you say you believe - it only matters what you do. - Robert Fulghum 
2. LearningLive as if you were to die tomorrow; learn as if you were to live forever. - Mahatma Ghandi
3. Attitude: I can’t change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination.  - Jimmy Dean
4. AchievementStart by doing what’s necessary; then do what’s possible; and suddenly you are doing the impossible. - Francis of Assisi
5. FaithDo not let your hearts be troubled. Trust in God; trust also in me. - Jesus Christ
6: RewardPerfection is not attainable, but if we chase perfection we can catch excellence. - Vince Lombardi
7. DreamThere is no passion to be found playing small - in settling for a life that is less than the one you are capable of living. - Nelson Mandela
8. CompanionshipThe key is to keep company only with people who uplift you, whose presence calls forth your best. - Epictetus
9. PatienceIn the practice of tolerance, one's enemy is the best teacher. - Dalai Lama
10: ServiceSilence is Prayer; Prayer is Faith; Faith is Love; Love is Service; the Fruit of Service is Peace. - Mother Teresa
You can’t drive forward when you are looking in the rear view mirror.  
Look to the horizon as we enter the new spring season this weekend and blossom into who you really were born to be!

Thursday, March 10, 2016

Priceless

Remember not to drive so much you forget to fill your gas tank - literally and figuratively.  Balance is priceless.